I’m currently experimenting with all kinds of beauty stuff (hair, makeup etc…) and I can verify: what’s perfect for you is how good you feel in it, whatever it is. In this case let’s talk hair. My friend rocks these curls wonderfully on her short hair, and they’re amazing on her. They’re perfectly coiled and neat, and cute (things I’m not in general). But one must sometimes confirm one’s suspicions, so we tried the cute curls on me.
Verdict: Very “Mandy Shirley Temple”! Pour moi (for me), these perfect curls remind me of being 5…when my mom used to do this with my long curls. Thus, I can confirm, messy un-uniformed, border unruly curls work for me.
So ladies, keep experimenting. It will bring you closer to what feels like “perfectly you”.