I’m here mostly for the fun. I’m cruising earth for the fun, delightful conversations, and gut pounding laughter. I do the whole purpose evaluation thing pretty often – the “why am I here question”, and I’ve come down to the plain fact that I’m here for the fun. The funny. All the spices of life. Soul filling laughter with friends, my children, reading, the coffee and its shops, the food, family, travels, culture, fashion, heart filling conversations, delightful hellos, great style, trees, wine (and some mixed drinks), bookstores, shopping, hugs, and kisses. And wit, with a smidgen of sarcasm.
Life will of course hurl its complications and pains, and I find myself in binding twists like everybody else – health issues, broken relationships, career fails, unrelenting belly fat, self doubt, parenting challenges etc…, but when I get my head above the water, I still conclude – I’m here for all the delight, and fun.
I dress up, meditate, send memes, play music, workout, watch shows, talk to my friends, drink coffee, and lots of other things everyday, because it all adds spice and interest to daily living. I’m learning that adding these spices reduces the need for constant vacations, and increases the value of each day. In other words, Carpe diem with the fun my friends!
You and I are not in this thing alone. My work is to dare myself to live vividly, and have all the conversations and fun their is to have while I’m here.
Why are you here?