You’re beautiful on the inside but you just don’t know how to make it shine on the outside?
You see yourself as this fierce diva in your head, like say, Queen of Dragons, but you don’t think the Khaleesi outfits will translate at your office? (I MAY have a slight Game of Thrones obsession)
No one would even believe your style icons because you sooo don’t look like it (yet)?
To unearth your inner exquisite, bold, chic, sophisticated, edgy, classic, feminine unique style you need to:
APPRECIATE YOUR GOOD BODY PARTS, and then maximize the bejesus out of them!
THAT is the secret to great personal style and confidence.
Size doesn’t matter. Shape doesn’t matter. Age doesn’t matter. ALL that matters is that you focus on the best parts of yourself, appreciate them, and dress them up. I’ve photographed (and done some of the makeup and styling) all these women, so I know for a fact that every woman can look stylish and beautiful outside.
It just takes effort, focus (on what’s amazing about you), and experimenting. Yes, it takes double effort if you’re a mom and your body seems to be a revolving door of weird lumps and bumps. You’ll just have to focus on your great lips, heavenly hips, doe eyes, glossy hair, sleek hands…pick at least 3 body parts that you can dress up and feel amazing about.
Then start experimenting with all the style pieces you’ve always wanted to try. At least TRY THEM ON and then dare yourself wear one.
A bold lipstick color here, a colorful blazer there, dangly earrings this day, high heels with jeans that day, funky statement necklaces with your work wear etc…Whatever your fancy, just try it.
When you’re comfortable with some new pieces combine some and voila, you’re creating your own personal style.
When you feel the kinda good that makes you strut the sidewalks, and your friends notice how fabulous you look and glow, you’re doing it right. Focus on all the great about yourself and expressing the shiniest version of yourself will become easier. Happy experimenting!